The big ideas
- 1
We feel loved differently
Kind words, time together, gifts, help or touch: one may land more for you.
- 2
Complaints are clues
What someone asks for most often usually points to what they need.
- 3
Hold it lightly
Research suggests most people value all five, so use it to start a conversation, not as a label.
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The other four
Put it into practice, together.
Mon Ami turns ideas like these into small steps: a question a day, games and dates, and Ami to help you talk things through.
Start on your own. Invite your partner when you're ready.

