The 5 Love Languages

Gary Chapman · 1992

The ways we feel loved.

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The big ideas

  1. 1

    We feel loved differently

    Kind words, time together, gifts, help or touch: one may land more for you.

  2. 2

    Complaints are clues

    What someone asks for most often usually points to what they need.

  3. 3

    Hold it lightly

    Research suggests most people value all five, so use it to start a conversation, not as a label.

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The other four

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